The social chat service, Knuddels, saw about 808,000 email addresses and over 1.8 million usernames and passwords exposed after an attack in July; the perpetrators went on to publish the information online at Pastebin and the Mega cloud storage service in cleartext form. An investigation by regulators showed that the website stored its data in plain text with no safeguards – which Knuddels confirmed.
Thirdly, confidence is big. Take pride in what you do well, own up to your flaws and acknowledge when you have done something wrong, but don’t apologize for who you are. Canadian online dating has been around for a while and is widely accepted, even cool, so saying things like “we can lie about where we met” will put people off. It’s not a very confident thing to say.